Freelance Wins & Lessons: Freelance Red Flags: What I Learned from Clients Who Wasted My Time

Freelance Red Flags: What I Learned from Clients Who Wasted My Time

Protect Your Time: Hard Truths from My First Freelance Clients
By Sire Jeep | Philippines, 2025

Freelancing is full of lessons—some inspiring, some tough.

When you’re just starting out, everything feels new. That’s normal.
Your first goal isn’t to get everything right. It’s to begin.

You’ll mess up. You’ll work with the wrong people.
But those early challenges? That’s where real growth starts.

Freelancer working thoughtfully on a laptop at desk
Serious businessman/freelancer working thoughtfully


Learn by Doing

No YouTube video or course will teach you what your first few gigs will.

You’ll learn:

  • How to speak clearly with clients

  • How to price your services

  • What red flags to avoid

As you go, you’ll create your own system—your own workflow, pace, and boundaries.

That system is your edge. Don’t give it away.

You don’t have to share your whole process—just master it and stay consistent.


My Early Mistakes (And What They Taught Me)

When I started freelancing, I thought, “If I do great work, clients will notice.”
I was wrong.


❌ The First Client: False Promises

One client asked me to “just help with a task.”
He said once I delivered, he'd send feedback and start real work.

I worked nearly two weeks. Delivered everything.
No response. No payment. Just silence.


❌ The Second Client: Endless Work, No Pay

Another client promised bonuses, promotions, and team roles.
What I got was unstructured tasks, unrealistic demands, and zero compensation.

Even a colleague who worked with me got the same outcome: nothing.

We thought we were building our future. But all we were doing was giving away our time to people who didn’t value it.


What I Learned (The Hard Way)

  • If a client won’t pay for a test task, walk away.

  • If the reward is “exposure,” “feedback,” or “future bonuses,”—it’s not real.

  • Anyone who values your work will respect your time from the start.

The biggest shift?

You can be kind, still learning, and still say no.


Trust Yourself—and Use the Right Tools

These platforms helped me find real clients:

These tools helped me manage my time and workflow:

  • Toggl Track – track time by task

  • Canva – design graphics and mockups

  • Notion – organize tasks, clients, and notes


Make It a Habit

Ask yourself every day:

  • What did I learn today?

  • What can I improve tomorrow?

  • What will I stop doing?

Growth is slow—but only if you stay in motion.


Try This Today

  • Set up a profile on Upwork or OnlineJobs.ph

  • Track 1 hour of deep work using Toggl

  • Create a sample visual on Canva

  • Use Notion to list your leads or tasks

These aren't just tools. They're your freelance foundation.


Final Thought

Protect your time. Reject free work. Build your system.

And remember:  Your work already has value—act like it.


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Thanks for reading and being part of this journey.

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